Part 1 - Why Angelina Jolie wants to date me?

Part 1 - Why Angelina Jolie wants to date me?

Posted on 09. Feb, 2009 by V in Exploration, Revival

  1. Why do I always come across wrong guys?
  2. Why everything is falling apart?
  3. Why things always go wrong with me?
  4. Why do I attract so much bad luck? Is it me?
  5. Why Angelina Jolie wants to date me?

Yo! Hold on! That # 5 statement about Ms. Jolie doesn’t make sense, everything else is fine. Why # 1 - 4 makes so much sense? Because they are common, I am sure all of you have come across 1 – 4 statements and probably never heard # 5 unless you hangout with Brad Pitt. # 1 – 4 were common statements (complaints). Typically, all these statements have a supplementing sentence, “Why all these things happen with me?”

If we put it in an order, it will be something like this, “I got a flat tire today and I had to wait for two hours, why all these things happen with me?”

Fundamental Approach

Is it true? Does these things happen to a particular person only? Why do always people think that bad and sad things are happening only with them? Why repeat the same line of why bad things happen to good people? Why not think of these tings not happening with others? Of course, both means the same, but there is a minute difference. The difference is the ‘way of thinking’, and approaching the problem. If you think, why is it happening with you, it results in multiplication of the current feeling. If you think, “Why is it not happening with others?”, you would try to think what is keeping and making them happy. Kudos! You found a solution to be happy. I know you didn’t, but you might have seen some light at the end of the tunnel. Let us proceed and see if we can find a better solution.

Cause and Effect Relationship

Before we find a solution, it is important to find out the reason for this “Cause and Effect” relationship. First, let us accept the fact that every person will have his/her own unique issues (good or bad). You are unique. No one looks or behaves like you including your twin brother or sister. Even though you share some similarities with others, you are unique in your way. If you are unique, then expect unique things to happen with you. When unique things happen, if they are good, you are happy. If they are bad, then you are sad and start complaining that you attract your unique bad luck. A great philosopher Vivekananda in one of his quotes mentioned, “Save yourself from yourself”. In other words, the most difficult thing in this world is controlling yourself, if you can control yourself, then you can conquer the world. We will get to the control factor, later in this post with the support of “Chain of Events” theory.

Second, the most important thing to understand is that life is never perfect. I am not being pessimist, if House can pass 700 billion dollars bill after vanishing 1.3 trillion dollars from US stock market, then we can always see a ray of hope anywhere. There is always something happening, even when nothing is happening. This is like a theatre, even if the scene is still, actors still act, they act being frozen. We do the same, even if nothing is happening in our life, something is constantly changing somewhere. That is the beauty of dynamic human environment. When things are going well, we expect it not to change, but it does. When things are not going well, we feel that things will never change and get depressed, but things change. Good times come back. One thing which will never change is the change. Write it on a post-it and stick it inside your brain.

Continued…

In next post: Where do you stand as an actor? How to stop attracting bad luck? The big thing – Solution.

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